OMG - He proposed -

I have told him its not serious.

I have told him that I am not planning on introducing him to my kids, they have been through too much over the last 3 years with the "split". (Why would I introduce them to a "boyfriend", when they are so upset about their daddy's "girlfriend").

However he insisted on introducing me to his 2 children a couple of weeks ago- at their soccer game - yeah that was uncomfortable....Oh well, their parents have been apart longer, so I guess its different.

I'm not ready.
He's not husband #2.

I just want things to stay the way they are.
He says he understands.

I don't even like diamonds.

Ho hum.